Since you haven't specified the version of your OS nor that of Photoshop and ACR, I'll take a crack at answering your question.
I see no such delay in ACR 8.5 running under Photoshop Mac 13.0.6 and OS X Lion 10.7.5.
If you have newer stuff, we have wasted your time and mine.
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Thanks!